You are not in the "right" scene: If you move in the gay scene, there are other problems, why you can not find a partner. Many gays can be interested in loose sex meetings more than in a committed relationship. Therefore, one should choose a suitable environment for serious dating. Having many contacts does not mean having the right contacts. Of course, at wild parties, it's harder to find a boyfriend because most people are just looking for fun.
You should also visit some more serious venues and events for gays, then maybe it works better with the Dating. The heterosexual dating service is used by the majority of members of gay’s platforms. It refers to the search for a person of the opposite sex rather than one's own, that is, relationships between men and women.